It’s catching!

  • By Sian Taylor
  • 12 Mar, 2019

Self-awareness

Everything looks grey. Like the clouds overhead.

I try to shake it off.

But like the rain, this feels incessant.

 

I stare at my inbox.

Eventually I start wading through the email.

The day has begun.

 

I realise I’m not really speaking to anyone.

And neither are they speaking to me.

I start a conversation.

It’s perfunctory.

Over quickly.

 

A little bit of trepidation starts to creep up.

I keep checking the clock.

Distracted.

I’ve got to be ready.

This meeting’s important.

 

Suddenly I’m up and out the door.

Not sure where I’m going, but at least I’m moving.

I start to think about the meeting.

And finally begin to mentally prep for it.

 

A forced smile.

A handshake.

I’m trying to be enthused.

We get down to business.

 

We part.

Smiling.

Agreement we have common goals and interests.

A light-hearted comment from them, we both laugh.

We’ll meet again.

To move things forward.

 

Walking back, feeling energised.

I smile and say hello.

“you look happier than this morning, good meeting?”

 

Yes, yes it was a good meeting.

Their cheerfulness, enthusiasm has lifted me.

Given me a boost.

I get on with the rest of my day, brighter, more purposeful.

 

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Moods can be caught, just like a cold.

And sometime that can be a positive thing, it can turn a day around.

So now when I realise I may be infecting others with my mood, I try to find ways to change it. Because if I help myself first, then I know I’ll be helping others.


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If these experiences sound familiar and you'd like to talk to me about how we could work together, then get in touch

sian@siantaylorcoaching.co.uk

07598 582787

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